What Your Dog’s Behavior Is Really Telling You

Your dog is always communicating — you just need to know how to listen.

Dogs speak a language of behavior, and understanding their cues can strengthen your bond and even help catch health or emotional issues early. For instance, a wagging tail doesn’t always mean a happy dog; the speed, direction, and height of the wag offer clues. A high, stiff wag may signal alertness or agitation, while a slow, wide wag often shows relaxation and friendliness.

Pay attention to posture, too. A dog crouching with ears back and tail tucked is likely anxious or fearful. Lip licking, yawning, or turning away in a calm setting often indicate stress, not tiredness or hunger. Excessive barking or chewing might not be a discipline issue — it could be boredom, anxiety, or a cry for attention.

Even small habits have meaning. If your dog follows you everywhere, it’s likely a mix of loyalty, curiosity, and maybe separation anxiety. Rolling over for belly rubs? That could be submission, trust, or just a clever trick to get your attention.

The key is to observe in context. Is the behavior new? Has anything in the home changed? Just like people, dogs react to their environment and internal states. With patience and empathy, you’ll start to recognize what your dog is really saying.

After all, communication is a two-way street — and your pup is trying to meet you halfway.